My name is Cassandra Hayworth, and I was born on July 10, 1977, in Philipsburg, Sint Maarten. After completing my education, I trained as a hotel professional and worked in this field for several years until I lost interest. I then sought out other jobs and worked in various professions, including at a supermarket, where I met my current wife in 2003. She was looking for a sauce for a barbecue with friends but didn’t dare approach me and searched for me for weeks without success. A childhood friend of hers eventually solved the problem by tracking me down. One weekend, when she wanted to go house-hopping with her girlfriends, I was invited because she desperately wanted to meet me. After initial language barriers (she spoke to me in German due to nerves), we talked all night until early morning. From that moment on, we became a couple. In 2010, after same-sex marriage became legal, we finally married. In 2020, we renewed our vows and unofficially married another woman. We live with our two cats in a house in my hometown.

In 2013, I joined a car rental company, where I still work today. My wife’s childhood friend wrote several books due to personal struggles, which inspired my wife to write her own book (available here). After learning my wife’s native language over months and discussing our shared bedroom activities repeatedly, I decided to write a book myself. The result was my debut novel, Laura’s Submission. I had a lot of fun with it, and during the writing process, I came up with countless ideas for more books. Alongside my work at the car rental company, I continue writing and publishing my books through self-publishing.

Other Interests

I love our cats, my small vegetable garden (yes, I talk to my plants), and walks in nature—especially when time allows with my wives. After a vacation and a visit to an amusement park, I discovered my love for adrenaline. No rollercoaster is high, fast, or wild enough for me.

Frequently Asked Questions

I’m often asked how I develop ideas for my books or why I have particular expertise in the BDSM genre. Some speculate that my wives and I have a relationship in this context, but that’s not true. Due to my first wife’s illness, we regularly discuss our bedroom experiences. We’re very experimental and try everything together. Afterward, we talk about what works for us, and these elements often appear in our sex life—including aspects of BDSM. We also discuss such topics with friends and acquaintances, some of whom live relationships in this context. From these conversations, I gain ideas that I incorporate into my books, and I don’t hesitate to ask directly.

Another recurring question is about natursekt (natural sparkling wine) and why it appears almost in all my books. The answer is simple: we all have a fondness for it, and we openly enjoy it in our marriage. That’s why this element keeps appearing in my stories. During the writing process, my wife sometimes serves me a special refreshing drink.

Stay Updated

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Thank you

Yours,

Cassandra Hayworth